He will told that he needs to be a gentleman, be patient and essentially treat the woman like a Disney princess, even though she’s just a normal, everyday girl.On top of all that, a guy will often overhear women say things like, With all that combined, is it any wonder that millions guys across the globe grow up believing that being “nice” is the key to getting a woman and then keeping her interested when in a relationship? Some nice guys believe that texting and phoning their girlfriend all the time is the best way to let her know how important she is to him.I'm smart, funny, I make decent cash, drive a nice car and all my "friend-girls" constantly tell me how hot I am. She is fairly friendly, she doesn't avoid my calls, and she doesn't try to get off the phone quickly. The bottom line is that if you interact with a woman long enough that she forms an "impression" of you, and she doesn't "feel it" for you, then you're done. And no amount of chasing her around, buying her things, and being "nice" is going to do the trick. Remember the guy above who asked the question "How can you be too nice? In my e Book, Double Your Dating, I spend several dozen pages on this topic of ATTRACTION...So I had her business card and I recently wrote her an email, to her WORK email address, on Friday and said thanks for all the help and asked her out for coffee. Do you think that the mechanism that causes women to feel ATTRACTION... before language, before MTV, before you learned how to kiss women's asses... how it developed, how it works, and how to understand it.
Then you don’t know if there are dirty dishes because he’s just messy, or because he looked at them, considered washing them and thought, “Nah. ” And do you drop everything you are doing and take almost two hours out of your day to do it? The fact that he even asks you do to such unnecessary and time consuming tasks says that he doesn’t think your time is as important as his. It’s fine to ask favors of a partner, but know the difference between a reasonable and unreasonable favor.
Admit it: you probably spend most of your energy in your relationship making sure you’re not the quintessential girlfriend described in every men’s magazine article.
But the truth is we can get so caught up in trying to not be a certain way that we can’t act natural!
This is a common mistake that nice guys make in relationships.
He believes that to keep a woman happy in a relationship, he has to hand over all the power to her.